After a totally romantic weekend away with The Boyfriend, it all came to a screeching halt as we drove home and the conversation swung around to The Muppet (who is coming to visit me in about 2 weeks). I came clean to admit that the Muppet would be staying with me and it was no surprise that the Boyfriend didn't like it for a second.

After that he promptly got out of the car without kissing me goodbye and drove away. In a bout of anger, when he told me that he'd see me later, I told him not to bother.

And then I felt awful. I sent him a text message to apologise to which he obviously did not reply.

I do realise that the situation is not ideal and that it should not be this way. But I just wish that after telling me he trusts me and our relationship, that he would just let this go. The reason I didn't tell him till now was because I knew he would react this way. And while jealousy is all very romantic, it really doesn't help when I just want to be honest.

I feel somewhat miserable now, like I've backed myself into a corner where on one hand, I can't tell the Muppet that he can no longer come. He's already paid for his tickets and I did tell him he could come here and stay with me. But on the other, I would be an absolute fool to spoil things with the Boyfriend when he is so good to me. I wish I knew how to resolve this...